You know when you like someone when they treat you kindly. When they show they care about you for who you are. Nobody can come close to your heart unless you give them permission. When you look into their eyes and you can see they are genuine.
Knowing if someone is good for you is another story.
The person you are talking to will make you feel good inside. They won’t let you feel threatened by their presence. Thus, when you like someone, it’s because they are coming across as likable.
- Too many times we think we like somebody because they are coming into our lives at the right time, only to find out we are broken inside.
- Other people can not fill the emptiness inside of us.
- Other people can only be there to comfort us.
When You Like Someone But They Don’t Like You Back
The hardest thing for me was to accept that others won’t like you the same way you like them. If that were the case, then how easy would it be to have everything we ever wanted. The truth is we can not control other people. We can not hold people against their will and we can’t make them love or like us. As hard as this is to admit, I’ve experienced this one too many times. It’s not a good feeling at all. It hurts knowing that someone else does not like or love you the same.
Attracted To Someone You Can’t Have
Imagine being able to see someone for the first time, and then immediately holding them in a matter of seconds. Without knowing the other person you instantly felt what it was like to hold someone you have just met. The whole point is to satisfy our wants and needs.
But, what happens when you are attracted to someone, either in business or in a relationship, and there is no way of ever knowing if the other person really even likes you back? You could fantasize all day long about how you are the one to do business with that other person, but in the end, the other person may not even know that you exist unless you build trust, time in the relationship, and communication.
Wanting What You Can’t Have Psychology
We all want things we can’t have. Unfortunately, it takes some of us longer than others to realize this concept. I use to think I could have it all if I worked hard enough if I gave it my everything. The problem came when I wasn’t good enough when I wasn’t what the market wanted. When I tried my hardest to keep it together, and nobody was buying. We always want what we can’t have. The hard part is knowing that I may never be good enough. When will it all end? The paradigm is simple: we always want more.
How To Stop Wanting Someone You Can’t Have
Basically, you need to move on. Not everybody is going to want to do business with you. It’s as simple as that. You should know who you are, and what you are going to do about it. How are you going to grow as a person? Where will you venture off too? Who will you meet? When will it end? These questions are important because they help you to think further down the road. It’s okay to want somebody, but you have to realize that not everybody is willing. Instead, it’s a good idea to focus on other activities. Nobody likes a person who doesn’t understand that no-means-no.
The Pain Of Being In Love With Someone You Can Never Be With
Loving other people doesn’t have to be sexual, or informal. In fact, loving other people can be a large aspect of doing business and being professional.
It’s a hard pill to swallow, isn’t it? I wish I could revisit certain people I loved again, you know…once more? It would be nice to revisit them and talk about the things we never had the chance to address. In business, loving another person doesn’t necessarily mean they are the right fit for you. You see, even if they treat you kindly, and they seem to like you, there’s always that chance that feelings will change as time goes on.
- My suggestion, overlook the love aspect and remember there’s pain that’s always there lingering when you are in love or when you think you like someone; and even when you know for a fact that you can never be with them.
- Remembering the pain of losing somoene you love can help you stay wise, sharp, and aware of the person in front of you; and keep you mindful of the the ups and downs of life.
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Treating Others With Respect In The Workplace
When we can’t have what we want we need to remember to still treat others with respect in the workplace. I know it’s hard to do this when you are angry, but you should have faith in yourself and that you will grow as a result of your behavior because your character is everything. In turn, be the bigger person. Learn to grow inside and out and you will thank you self later. We all slip up every once and a while so don’t be too hard on yourself.
- Don’t let others get the best of you and strive to set the example. You never know who is looking up to you. Nobody likes an unprofessional to doing business with.
- Respecting others, even when you are mad, or don’t approve, gives you the opportunity to see where you are flawed in your own thinking, and maybe you can learn something new from the situation and grow as a person from the experience.
I Have A Bad Feeling That Something Is Going To Happen
When you feel like something bad is going to happen that may be an indication that the person you are talking to is giving you bad vibes. Thus, I would leave the area and get away from that person. If you are at work, just leave. Obviously, you don’t like the person and you can tell you don’t so don’t even try. I’m one of those people who can feel people out and tell you when they are bad news. You have the means of leaving people who you don’t mesh with at any given time.
Obviously, you don’t like the person you are near so don’t even try to push things further when it doesn’t feel right. I’m one of those people who can feel people out and sense when they are bad news. You have the means of leaving people who you don’t mesh with at any given time.
Thank you so much for reading “How Do You Know When You Like Someone.”
Carl Wolfgang Schultz